The Etiquette of Privilege

http://www.etiquettehell.com/?p=1418&cpage=1#comment-14148

Interesting, don’t you think?  A classic case of ‘othering’, and a self-styled etiquette maven thinks that the people who are offended by this are the ones with the problem.

“Some fans of this site are entirely too wound up living their lives in a perpetual state of hypersensitivity to being offended about something their fellow man has done to them. It’s as if they look for ways to be offended every morning when they wake up.”

Yes, Virginia, if you are offended by someone treating you like a racial stereotype, it is because you are looking to be offended.

The admin is an upper-middle class white conservative Christian woman.  So strong is her privilege that she has in the past seen fit to force her religious views upon guests and condemned them for being rude when they objected.

The woman has also compared cultural practices that do not meet the standards of upper-middle class white conservative Christian United States values to slavery, cannibalism, and feminine genital mutilation.  What cultural practice gained such scorn from her, you ask?  The European practice of inviting your friends out to a restaurant on your birthday.

That’s privilege.  That’s arrogance.

And that’s rude.

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The problem with sitcoms

I was flipping channels, and I started to notice a pattern.

In sitcom 1, we have a white cast.  There are a couple minority folks on the peripherals that serve mainly as ‘token’ minorities in a failed attempt to ‘legitimize’ the show.  Oh, Shoving Buddies isn’t racist or privileged, we have Joe Black the butler, remember?  And that’s the problem.  The minorities exist to serve the white cast or to be caricatures playing up the negative stereotypes of the race.

In sitcom 2, we have a cast made up of minorities of a particular type.  There are a couple whites and other minorities around on the peripherals…and they are treated the exact same way the token minorities on the first sitcom are treated.  They exist to be caricatures playing up the negative stereotypes of their races so the main cast can mock them or play off them.

In sitcom 3, we have a mainly male cast and it is considered a ‘male’ show.  Therefore the females in it are either sex objects or bitchy women that exist as caricatures playing up the negative stereotypes of their gender for the male cast to react to.

In sitcom 4, we have a mainly female cast and it is considered a ‘female’ show.  Therefore the males in it are sexual harassers or games to be played that exist as caricatures playing up the negative stereotypes of their gender for the female cast to react to.

The problem exists in some dramas as well, but on the whole, the more successful dramas avoid blatant displays of the above.  For sitcoms though, the display is often the entire point of the show.

We acknowledge the white/male shows as racist/sexist and call it examples of privilege.  And it is, and it’s one of the major reasons I don’t watch ‘popular’ sitcoms.  I don’t like it when the joke is someone’s race/gender.

And that’s why I don’t watch the minority sitcoms either.  I don’t like it when the joke is someone’s race/gender.

I would love to see a sitcom that actually displayed equality.  A mixed cast, male female white minority.  I want equality.  I don’t want revenge.  Let’s raise the bar, shall we?  It’s a hell of a lot better than sinking to the level of the birth of a nation.

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